How to Choose the Right Senior Living Community
Choosing a senior living community is a significant life decision that marks the beginning of a vibrant new chapter. This journey is about finding a place that aligns with your lifestyle, values, and vision for the future. The process of choosing a retirement community can feel complex, but by asking the right questions and knowing what to look for, you can find a home that truly fits. This guide offers insights on how to choose a retirement community that supports your independence, passions, and well-being.
Define Your Ideal Lifestyle
The first step in choosing a senior living community is to look inward. What does your ideal day look like? Are you an early riser who enjoys a swim, or do you prefer a quiet morning with a book? Consider the activities, hobbies, and interests that bring you joy.
Make a list of your non-negotiables and your nice-to-haves. Do you want to be close to cultural attractions like theaters and museums? Is a robust wellness program with fitness classes a priority? These personal preferences will help you narrow down your options and focus on communities that match your unique lifestyle.
What to Look for in a Retirement Community
Once you have a clear picture of your ideal setting, you can evaluate specific communities. Beyond the physical space, it's the culture, governance, and values of a community that create a truly fulfilling living experience.
Community Governance and Values
How a community is managed says a lot about its priorities. Is it a large, corporate-run entity or a single-site, nonprofit organization? A nonprofit community, for example, often reinvests its resources back into the programs and services that benefit its Members.
A truly unique aspect to consider is Member involvement in governance. At Terwilliger Plaza, we are the only community in the nation with a representative-run model. This means Members have a real voice in the decisions that shape their community. Founded by retired teachers in 1962, our foundation is built on principles of engagement and civic responsibility. This structure ensures that the community evolves to meet the needs and desires of the people who live here.
A Rich and Engaging Social Fabric
A great community offers ample opportunities for connection and personal growth. When you visit, ask about the activities calendar. Look for a diverse range of programs that cater to different interests.
Do they offer lectures, discussion groups, and creative workshops? Are there regular social events? For instance, our Members enjoy everything from Friday night music performances to stimulating panel discussions. Proximity to local culture is also a key factor. Being located in downtown Portland gives our Members easy access to the city’s world-class arts and culture scene.
Wellness and Healthcare
A comprehensive wellness program is a cornerstone of modern senior living. This goes beyond just a fitness room. Look for communities that take a holistic approach to health.
What to look for in a retirement community's wellness offerings:
A quality aquatic center for swimming and water aerobics.
A variety of fitness classes, such as yoga, tai chi, and strength training.
Access to wellness resources and health services.
A culture that promotes active, healthy living.
Flexibility and Independence
Your retirement should be on your terms. One of the important questions to ask senior living facilities is about flexibility. A common point of friction can be mandatory meal plans. While dining options are a plus, you should have the choice to cook in your own apartment home or dine out as you please. A community that offers flexibility, like not requiring a meal plan, respects your independence and personal preferences.
Key Questions to Ask Senior Living Facilities
As you tour different communities, having a list of questions will help you gather the information you need to make an informed choice.
Questions about Culture and Community:
How are residents involved in decision-making?
What is the history and mission of the community?
Can you describe the overall atmosphere here?
How does the community engage with the larger local area?
Questions about Lifestyle and Amenities:
What types of clubs, classes, and activities are available?
Are there opportunities for lifelong learning?
Is there a mandatory meal plan?
What are the fitness and wellness facilities like?
Questions about Operations and Logistics:
What accreditations do you hold? (Look for benchmarks of quality like CARF and SAGE accreditation, which demonstrate a commitment to excellence and inclusivity.)
Is there currently a waitlist for apartment homes? (Some communities have long waitlists, so it's good to know upfront. Terwilliger Plaza currently has no waitlist.)
What is included in the monthly fee?
Taking the Next Step
Choosing the right senior living community is a process of discovery. It's about finding a place where you feel connected, valued, and empowered to live your best life. By reflecting on your priorities and asking thoughtful questions, you can confidently move forward.
Explore communities that align with your values, whether that’s a commitment to Member-led governance, a passion for the arts, or a dedication to wellness. The right community is out there waiting for you.